one thing I learned, people will do what ever they can to make you feel like you 10 inches tall. but it up to you to feel that way. like marriah carey said in her song you can say what ever you want to said, i will not let you take that away from me. so your self esteem belong to you, no one can take it onless you give it up, what I mean by give it up. may be expain by the french proverb " qui veut son respect se le procure" I you repect your self you have to hold your head up and hight no oen can make bow it onless you agreed with them .
wesner